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Have a question? Fire away: The question: My wife and I are both 49 and have been together for 23 years.
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As I'm at my wits' end, we have discussed this for hours over the last few weeks, she acknowledges her lack of interest and understands my frustration. In fact, she's Wife want casual sex Hi Hat me the green light to get this all out of my system by having casual sex with others.
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Sure, you go on your cottage trip with the boys — I'll go solo to my family wedding, that's totally fiiiiiine. Completely convinced he'll figure it out, and shocked and hurt when he doesn't. If your wife is taking a page from my book of passive-aggression, this could be dangerous.
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I consulted a team of experts in the field, literally: Fifty Shades of Grey. They told me that one copy circulated around the team: After one wife was done with it, another guy would borrow it — before long, they were all bragging on the bench about how their wives had transformed from cold fish to Wife want casual sex Hi Hat in the sack. Sure, I scoffed but by the sounds of it, you should put a copy on her side of the bed.
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Stephen de Wit, who says he's coached many couples through successful "consensual non-monogamous" relationships. We agree you should investigate your mismatched libidos first — but "stepping outside the marriage," as the doctor puts it, can actually help. Once you've discussed all the details, all the emotions and the expectations — how much does she want to to know, how often is the sex allowed, where will it take place, how this new dynamic will play into your regular domestic spats, does she also want a "green light," etc.
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Should he have texted more? How much does she want to know is Wife want casual sex Hi Hat here. The doctor advises — though I can hear him cringing — that a good starting point would be websites targeted to connecting people in committed relationships who are searching for casual sex. There, you should be painstakingly clear that you love your wife in your profile — and look for a woman with the same expectations, the doc says.
I'm still wildly uncomfortable with this — go make sex better with your wife, I say — Wife want casual sex Hi Hat Dr. De Wit Woman seeking casual sex Drasco indeed that I'm a prude. I groan through most of his sexologist speak — "we've been programmed to think of sex as 3-D — dirty, dangerous, and degrading" — but then he says something enlightening that I'll leave you to ponder.
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