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I learned that life changes, nothing stays the same. That different unplanned circumstances can Tired of being alone looking for my mate every bit as good as the ones you planned and worked for. That the trauma of unexpected death lessens over time—more than 10 weeks—and it is a respite of sorts from the real world.

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It is all your to choose from and dabble in now. In a painful, cruel way this is your time. No one can take away your pain, you have to live and grow thru it. I still cry little every day but Dave is part of the rich heavy tapestry of my life. I still ask myself what would David do? And sometimes I do what I think he would do and sometimes not. I am better for having been a wife and I am better still for being a widow.

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After 5 years of flying solo I find that grief is not linear…I thought I had everything under control. I enjoy volunteering at shelters, offering time and talent helping others and connecting with others via organizations and events…Keep looking foreward….

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But my dear the melt downs and pain and that dark place will become far and few in between. I lost my spouse after being together for 34 yrs. Three wks before his 59th birthday. And, who could blame them. And, as some others here have stated…you must keep-on-keeping-on, as I always say. Never give-up! Forward is the only way to reinvent yourself in a positive way, at any age. Those who have left this plane on earth are the ones now in a better place.

At the start the grief was Spiritually, then it was emotionally, by Oct. I know…each day can be so different. So I just keep working on myself…re-inventing, re-establisting, re-organizing, and resting to keep a Balance on all aspects needed to go on in the best positive way that I can, even if tired of being lonely. People say get support from family and friends…huh. And, watch out for being vulunerable! People will take advantage of a lonely widow, especially if she has a home and money.

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Blessed be to all of you! In Sincerity. I am your age — younger than I thought I would ever be, as a widow, no children, sudden death, almost zero social network.

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Good luck, may the Lords healing hand touch you and your family!!! Leslie, I understand the pain and frustration you are feeling. I lost my husband of 27 years in December of Moving forward has been difficult.

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As usual, they were all loved Tired of being alone looking for my mate any of their friends or family would have done whatever possible to stop this if they could.

There was nothing you could have done to stop your husband. I hope you really understand that. As far as avoiding uncomfortable situations, this is completely understandable.

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Thank you, Andrea. Oh, I think I can understand. The circumstances around my husbands death were so beyond anything I would ever imagine I could live through emotionally. The sudden death from a motorcycle accident and then discovering so much betrayal. My husband of 50 years ended his own life. In April I was 18 when I married, so knew no other man.

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